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I believe in giving, we receive. By helping someone and giving out love, I had conquered selfishness and sorrow and self-pity, and felt like I was truly living my life purpose. I must confess, I am a new person and doing all the things that I love by thinking of others and striving to do a good deed everyday.
When we reach out to help others along the way, we tend to forget about our problems and discover our inner strength that we never dreamed we possessed. It takes our attention off ourselves and focus it on others who are much worse off than ourselves. Sometimes, we feel as though life is just passing us by and our lives are empty. We are surrounded by many others---bursting with troubles, and dreams, and private ambitions. They are also seeking for the chance to share them with someone. We can step out of our very own private world and achieve greater happiness!
Doing good for others gives us satisfaction, and pride within ourselves. It's not a duty. It is joy, for it increases our health and happiness. Imagine the expression of excitement and joy on a child's face on Christmas day, when they realized someone cared enough to think about them. Thinking of others will not only keep you from worrying about yourself; it will also help you to make a lot of friends and when you are good to others, "you are best to yourself."
When we take an interest in other people lives they beam with happiness and pleasure. It helps them to focus on other areas of their lives as well. We can always find something to complain and worry about living in a fallen world, but give someone a little attention as human beings and bring a smile to their faces I can guarantee you that it's contagious. try making someone else happy and you will be happy as well. " A bit of fragrance always cling to the hand that gives you roses." Spray on some Happiness today.
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How many people---your friends, your family, your mates, and your children are waiting for encouragement from you, an uplifting word of confidence after getting turned down for a job or receiving a failing grade on a test that might change the direction of their lives? How many times have we avoided taking a chance on someone else, putting our reputation on the line, and not helped a person in dire need? Have you ever thought the difference in their direction may just depend on you!
In order to give someone a compliment we first have to “notice” them. If we can just open our preoccupied minds for a few seconds a day and take the swagger shades off our glazed eyes. Be the first one to notice what’s good for a change, instead of what’s wrong. “If there be any virtue and if there be any praise, think and comment on these things.”
I believe a powerful personality may be appealing for the moment, but for a lasting relationship nothing beats a genuine concern for the welfare of other people. It’s not always easy to show genuine concern for the welfare of other people. Our basic instinct for self-preservation keeps us from wanting to get involved with the problems of others. “I’ve got my own problems,” we say, and surely we do. But we must make a basic decision: If we really want to compliment, notice and help others, we don’t need to worry as much about our externals—we have to rededicate our internals to showing genuine concern for others. Let your actions speak louder than words. Try for one day complimenting someone.
Angela M. Thomas is a certified speaker, and author of eight inspirational books. She is the CEO/ Founder of Sheerpurrfection Publishing and Teach 2 Reach Literary Program. To contact or book Angela, please call (305)793-1347 or visit www.AngelaMThomas.com
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If you judge people, you have no time to love them.~ Mother Teresa
If you find yourself tormented by past mistakes or today’s failure, then go to the Man with the eraser in his hand and allow Him to wipe it away.
Forgiveness is something many of us still struggle with in everyday life. The only way you can completely forgive wrongs done to you is through trusting Jesus Christ and remembering that He forgave you. Learning to forgive others can give you the freedom to let go of any negative or hurt emotions that you feel as a result of a certain situation, event or person. It’s not about claiming forgiveness, you have to honestly work through what you are feeling in order to set yourself free and achieve balance within yourself.
When you harbor negative feelings such as anger, hate, rage, fear or self-doubt, it causes your behavior to change as well as your emotional balance.Unforgiveness causes serious health conditions and depression or side effects like fatigue along with a weakened immune system. Unforgiveness is a distraction; it is a stumbling block, and it is the reason God instructs us to obey Him in this area. Over a period of time our hearts become harden and we are not completely able to enjoy life fully, and you certainly cannot experience God’s blessings and goodness.
The first person you probably have not forgiven is yourself. I believe more people have a lack of forgiveness toward themselves, than anybody else. We must acknowledge and agree with God that what we have done is wrong. We must say, “Lord, what I did was wrong. Please forgive me.” It’s over and done with and we need to move on as well. Living the Christian life is serious, and forgiveness is a foundational part of it.
The process of forgiveness is sometimes complicated by recurring offenses. In the cycle of hurt, forgiveness, and renewed trust, forgiveness must be repeated over and over again. It is a discipline we exercise daily. In cases of repeated mistreatment or abuse, even though we may choose to forgive, choosing to trust may be inappropriate or unsafe. It isn’t wise to trust those who are not trustworthy. Trust must be earned. In those situations it is imperative to temporarily disengage from those who are inflicting wounds and to see help from a trained professional or pastor. Yes, we are to forgive but not put ourselves in dangerous situations. As we practice the work of letting go and forgiving, we discover more and more that forgiveness and healing are one.
 
  
Angela M. Thomas is a certified speaker, and author. She has written and published eight inspirational books. Also, she has released her new audio music CD “Let Me Love You”. She is the CEO/Founder of Sheerpurrfection Publishing and Teach 2 Reach Literary Program. To contact or book Angela, please call (305) 793-1347 or visit www.AngelaMThomas.com
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